The Secret of Success

My daughter Kitty recently shared a link to a TED Talk with me, a presentation by a woman named Angela Lee Duckworth. Dr. Duckworth, once a McKinsey consultant, left the world of management consulting with one of the country’s most prestigious firms to go teach math to seventh graders in the New York City public school system.  She observed that her students who succeeded were not always the ones with the highest intelligence quotients or those who came from what we would consider good homes. Her interest in these factors led her back to school to receive a Ph.D. in psychology at the University of Pennsylvania where she now teaches. Her platform and her research are based on the theory that the biggest indicator of success is “grit.”

Several impressions washed over me when I listened to her Ted Talk entitled “The Key to Success: Grit.” First, I was bowled over by the idea that this talented young woman would leave a job at McKinsey, replete no doubt with a significant salary, a healthy expense account, bonuses, stimulating assignments and a career ladder that reached to the sky, to go teach seventh grade math.

Upon hearing that, I had a flashback: In seventh grade, we had a biology teacher named Joyce Something. I remember her as being rather serious and drab, but during  the year she got engaged. She changed right in front of us: her eyes sparkled, her once unkempt hair was now tied with a bow. And during one class, the boys started teasing her about getting married, focusing specifically on the honeymoon. She ran out of our classroom in tears.  I remember raising my eyes to the ceiling and uttering this prayer: “Dear God, please let me never teach seventh grade.” So my admiration for Dr. Duckworth wasn’t just that she left consulting for teaching: she left to teach seventh graders.

My next observation was that Dr. Duckworth’s scientific research was a direct reflection of what my dad always told me about success. However, he didn’t use the word “grit.” His version was “stick-to-it-iveness.” All the brilliance in the world, he said, can only be harnessed if we’re willing to do the work. My dad, too, was a professor, but I think his counsel on stick-to-it-iveness was based less on his experience in academia and more as a direct result of being raised as the youngest of six on a farm in Nebraska during the Depression. My grandmother was a Methodist minister and part-time gas station owner, widowed by the time my Dad was 10, a woman who did everything she could to make ends meet for her children. If our religion as a family was Methodism, our mantra was hard work. I’ve learned as a business and career coach who helps people and companies with strategic planning that all the brilliant strategies and ideas in the world don’t amount to anything without action, without execution. And that takes grit.

Lastly, I thought of a quote I’ve heard over the years attributed to Calvin Coolidge. “Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence,” he said. “Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.”

In fact, Angela Lee Duckworth says grit is often inversely related to talent, and she implies that follow-through trumps talent any day of the week.  “Grit is sticking with your future — day in, day out, not just for the week, not just for the month, but for years — and working really hard to make that future a reality,” she said. This sobering insight gives me new determination and inspiration to commit to following through, doing what Gregg Levoy in his remarkable book Callings: Finding and Following an Authentic Life calls “the pick-and-shovel work” that it takes to achieve our dreams.  For a calling to manifest into success, it looks like we have to do the work. I figure that Dr. Duckworth, Calvin Coolidge and my dad can’t all be wrong.

4 thoughts on “The Secret of Success

  1. Amen, Sister,
    One of my favorite anonymous quotes, “If your determination to succeed is strong enough, failure will not overtake you.” Part of that, I believe, has to do with how we define failure. Winston Churchill defined success as “often nothing more than moving from one failure to another without loss of enthusiasm.”

    1. I love that definition by Sir Winston! Thanks so much for sharing, Natalie. And the quote reminds me that the word of “enthusiasm” includes the root Greek word “theos,” which means that “enthusiasm” translates essentially to being inspired by God. So based on Sir Winston’s definition, those of us who express enthusiasm have a wild, unbridled excitement for something for which we have no guarantee. I believe they call that “faith.”

  2. Vickie! So excited that you’ve started a blog. This post makes me think of an audiobook I listened to a few years ago by Geoff Colvin– Talent is Overrated: What Really Separates World-Class Performers from Everybody Else. Colvin studied success stories like Mozart, Ben Franklin, and Tiger Woods and concluded that intentional practice is the key to success (along with having mentors, analyzing one’s performance, and a supportive family). Most of the success stories he studied had 10 years of consistent practice under their belts before they made their first splash. Malcom Gladwell’s Outliers, with its 10,000 hour rule, came out the same year as Talent is Overrated. I gotta say that True Grit has a better ring than Intentional Practice.

    1. Chris–So glad to hear from you! Happy New Year and thanks for sharing your thoughts. I will get my hands on “Talent is Overrated” by Geoff Colvin. Miss you and Laura madly and never pass the old Borders Bookstore location without thinking of you and sending good thoughts your way. What will you create in this new, wondrous year? You are a Diva Extraordinaire! Much love, V.

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